Thanks for the comments.Ok here’s more details. So I am now the Maid of Honor in my mom’s wedding. She told me this like a week ago. So now what I wear matters even more. I need to find something elegant, long. I’m trying to to get something too tight from the waist down because I am still not where I need to be in that area of the body. I didn’t want to wear black but other colors make me feel like I look big. The wedding is October 22nd.