Sometimes life really sucks and there’s nothing you can do about it. I was having an ok day. I sent an email to a friend I made while we were at the same internship over the summer, she’s a great girl. She wrote me back today and I feel so bad right now. Her boyfriend is sick. He has cancer in several areas of his body and only has a few months to live. This guy is 26 years old. He has a good job, good family and he is dying. He went in for tests because he had cancer before and was in remission. I feel so bad. They’ve only been together about a year but they’ve been talking about getting married and he keeps asking her to move in with him. I don’t know what to make of this. I feel so bad for her. For his own family. I can only imagine what it was like when he went through it the first time. I’m on the verge of tears, sitting on a chair in the hall way outside of the cafeteria so I’ll go now.
On Thursday I found out a girl I went to junior high with died last year. I was in no way friends with the girl and couldn’t stand her because she always made fun of me, now she’s dead. Her boyfriend was driving too fast and they died on impact. Sorry if you get depressed reading this entry. I just feel too sad.
kcheval said:
I understand how you feel right now . . . a guy that I knew in college (he was friends with my ex-boyfriend) died yesterday. He was in a really bad car accident on Sunday; I don’t know exactly what happened but apparently his car hit a tree . . . they had to amputate one of his legs and he was on life support . . . I got the news right after I got out of my Con Law class and I just couldn’t focus all day. He was only 25 . . .
It’s crazy how life goes . . .
Just pray about it . . .
I hope you feel better . . .
LegalDivaEsq said:
wow this is sad…compared to what others are going through, I feel like a bad day at work can never compare.
Anonymous said:
This is very sad. But even tho its hard to realize it but they are in a better place than we are. And your friend should marry him and not out of pitty but because if she really loves him then u never know. and plus doctors give estimates, no one really knows when its going to happy besides God. But You and D just be blessed and thankful that its not you two. but this just proves how important things like Love and Peace are.
afrodyt2000 said:
thanks everyone. I still feel sad but I will be ok. Nicole, they were just talking about getting married, so they may not actually get engaged because now he may die before that happens. How sad!
QTCarol26 said:
Wow…I’m so sorry. Today I was listening to people’s stories in Louisiana and Mississippi. This one man talked about how the flood waters were so high and he was holding on to his wife. At a point he coldn’t hold on anymore so she told him that she loved him and to take care of their kids…he lost his grip. He was crying and said he lost all he had. I was on the verge of tears. It’s so unfair the trials and tribulations some people have to go through. All you can do is pray and be thankful. I hope you feel better…..:)