Sunday March 27, 2005

why do some people ask for opinions ans if you don’t agree with them, they have a hissy fit? Geez, I guess you should only ask people to post comments if they like your idea then. LOL. I try to be nice about my opinions and not rude but hey I guess I should just shut up, life is safer when you don’t say anything, but then that can be construed badly too sometimes.

On to the important things, I spent most of the weekend with my fiance. We had fun. The apartment is coming along nicely. I can’t wait to see it finished. I just ordered a bookcase from Ikea and I ordered a new mattress to go with our platform bed. The mattress should be delivered on Monday.

Wednesday March 23, 2005

Ok so my fiance has been cleaning his apartment like a mad-man, yay! I can’t wait to see it tonight. He’s also putting up the bed, I think he started last night, with no help. I don’t know how much he got done. I can’t wait to see the bed.

Monday March 21, 2005

Not sad anymore. The issue was totally resolved and we’re well on our way to getting things the way I’d like. I’m in school, my schedule next semester looks like it will suck. My brain will be fried on Mondays 9-6 with no breaks or only a 1 hour break. It’s insane but that’s what it looks like. I spent two hours doing my schedule because I don’t know if I got into a clinic so I have to do one version with the clinic and one without. Now I find out that the first schedule I used was wrong and a new one is being printed up, so I have to start over. Hopefully there are only a few changes in my schedule.

Saturday March 19, 2005

kinda sad right now. I won’t say why because I don’t want anyone to read this and take it the wrong way. My little sister is so funny. I went to the post office today to do my passport application and those f@#$ing government asses raised the price again. They raised it back like 2 or 3 years ago to 85 dollars and now it’s 97 dollars. Of course it just went up LAST week, I’ve got great timing. Whatever at least it’s done. When I come home next week, I get to go to the DMV, that’s always fun. Well I am getting all the administrative crap I have to done, health insurance application, passport application, drivers license and then after that will be the joint account when my fiance has valid state ID too.

Wednesday March 16, 2005

I forgot to write that I filled out my applications for two clinics at my school. I like both the Civil Externship Clinic and the Business, Law and Technology Clinic. I live civil because I could get to work with a small firm for credit in the fall and sometimes they hire those people for after graduation. I may not want to work in a small firm, but having job offers is what’s important. I can decide it I want to work there after. Business, Law and Technology is a big deal to me because I majored in Economics and minored in business management in college. I want to work in the business world possibly in corporate counsel at some point in my career. I should know by monday which one I got into.

I’m trying to decide if I should go to summer school, if I do it will be to my old school in Queens, it’s cheaper and closer to NJ where my summer internship is. We’ll see. I’m hoping my mom will come with me this weekend to buy more stuff for the apartment. I want to go with a stainless steel theme in the kitchen. I never realized how girly I was when it comes to decorating. LOL.

Sunday March 13, 2005

Ok, one thing I feel the need to clarify. I am not in a “rush” when it comes to anything in my relationship. If I were, I don’t think I would have waited 6.5 years to get engaged. I do realize that we are working on our own time as well as God’s time and things are going at the pace that is right for us. I previously commented on how atipical our relationship is and yet it is still MORE successful than people who have more conventional relationships. I’m happy with the way things are and welcome whatever way our relationship progresses. *stepping off of soapbox*

Saturday March 12, 2005

Not much to report. I had a midterm on Thursday, that was an interesting experience.  I was loopy for the rest of the day. More snow. I have come to hate snow, I mean, we don’t usually get snow practically every week. This winter had sucked a lot. I hope Spring comes soon.

I have been buying stuff for “our place.” LOL the other day my fiance was doing laundry and asked me to check his closet, then he corrected himself and said our other bedroom closet. I thought that was so cute especially since I don’t live there yet. I am going to buy this bed I saw, itlooks really nice, sort of different from the typical beds you see but it looks like it will match the other bedroom furniture. I have bought sheets, towels, a scale, all kinds of stuff from target.com. LOL I’m going crazy with house shopping crap. I don’t think I’m going to buy much else unless it is a really good price. That’s about it. I got my hair done on friday and then I came back out here.

Thursday March 3, 2005

WooooooHooooooo my fiance asked me to move in with him after I finish this semester. I’m so happy. Our relationship has progressed so slowly. It took us a year of friendship before we started dating, 7 months later for…6.5 years to get engaged and now 7 years to move in together and ultimately 9 years to get married. How long will it take to have kids?

Tuesday March 1, 2005

Proof that I’m usually not wrong. I was having issues with where I’m living here at school. I share a house with 2 other people. Anyway for this area the rent is good but the house is always cold and I have issues with one of my roommates i.e. every once in awhile I want to bash his head in. He’s not cleanest person in the world, he leaves food out in the open, he decides to steal my shower time when it’s hard enought to drag my ass out of bed at *gasp* 8 am. I know most of you don’t feel too bad for me but for several years I had to get up at 6:35am and soon enough I’ll be right back there. Any way, back to the point. So my other roommate today asks me if I’m staying here over the summer, I said that I was going back to Brooklyn because my internship is in NJ and it’s a closer commute. She then asks if our other roommate told me about…the house we are living in being sold by the owner so we have to leave by September. Remember how I said I’m usually not wrong. Well just last night another part of the argument I had with my fiance had to deal with me living here next year. He thinks the commute would be too hard and it would be but I’ve done it before. In fact, I had a longer commute when I was in my last two years at Stony Brook. So now finding out that I HAVE to move back home, sort of supports that point. I knew I wouldn’t be living here next school year. God works in mysterious ways.  

Tuesday March 1, 2005

wow, a fiance that wants to help plan the wedding and not take it over. He and have been in a battle with wedding plans for a while. He is so opinionated about this wedding. Any way, we got into a huge argument last night and then he called me back and we talked. So now we’re actually really working together. He told me to get his family guestlist from his sister who got married in October. I emailed her but nothing yet. We even started going over our must play list together. I gave him a list of songs I want to be played and he started choosing songs he liked and it was nice planning together. Before I would have an idea and he wouldn’t want to talk about planning or he would say he didn’t like my idea without giving an alternative idea. It’s so much better now. I just emailed him the ceremony format I was working on, I hope he likes it. Now, when are we going to find time to do premarital counseling? Since I’m in law school we have access to a psychologist, I will have to see what our schedules are like next semester, maybe we can see her since he doesn’t want to do it with a church or anything.